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Monday, July 07, 2014

DIY BIKE STORAGE RACK

I love cinder blocks!  This DIY bike storage cost me $9. Blocks are .92 cents at Menards, 6x8x16 (height, width, length). Laid on their sides and staggered with two PVC pipes running through the holes so the bikes don't roll. With the bike with pegs they rest on the blocks. Works well. Only other recommendation I'd make is to use cement glue to prevent the top blocks from sliding. Other than that, paint of you like. ??  I just wanted them up out of the drive way. Kickstands only last a few months around here. 
























Saturday, June 28, 2014

Me and Joshua Golfing

Teeing off...

:(


This course is so pretty. 


I couldn't believe the amount of cottonwood on this hole. 




We didn't exactly have a good game but we had fun!


Tuesday, June 24, 2014

Thoughts on Home Designs

I was just over at Pinterest and someone was posting house designs.  So, I opened a few to have a peek at what someone else considers their dream home.  Right off the bat, they are not plans I'd ever opt for.  Frankly, what I like, I haven't seen in print.  I have seen what I like - in an old home a friend used to own. 

I'm not a party girl.  I'm very 'contained.'  What I mean is, when it comes to a home I don't want any Tom, Dick or Harry to walk in my front door and have a clear view up my stairs nor do I want them to have to walk to the back of the house to get to where the 'entertainment' is.  Sadly, I do not live in my dream home.  My biggest pet peeve about my house is that my stairs lead straight out the front door.  Ok, not quite.  It's slightly off-center, but you know what I mean, I'm sure. 

There are two things from old homes, here in WI, that I want in my dream home (and yes, I can see my dream home, plain as day, in my mind).  First, many older homes, especially those set up in parishes (blocks), have a 'box' on the front of the house.  I don't know what to call it or how to describe it other than a closed in front porch.  So, there's a door to it that one wonders, 'do I knock here, or do I just go on in and knock at the inner door?'  Some people use them for living spaces in which if you don't knock before entering - you're walking right into their living space.  But, that's not what they are meant for.  I'd set mine up so that there was lighting, seating, coat rack - to make 'guest's' (welcome or  not - Jehovah's Witnesses and other religious bull-pushers) comfortable.  Once they knock on the house door I can be free to walk into that outer room and be polite in telling them to 'get lost' or I can sit down and really consider my Girl Scout cookie options or which tantalizing Boy Scout popcorn tin I want to purchase - without anyone coming into my home.  That's the best part - no one that I don't know (or know but am not prepared to entertain) has to come into my home, see my mess, or see my nice things.  I don't have to stand blocking an open door from cats or dogs getting out, I don't have let the heat out (or cold in - during winter) or the heat in (during summer).  It's such a nice addition to a home I don't know why we all don't have one, or use the ones we have in that manner.  Also, I can't tell you how many drivers would stop by my house in Wrightstown to ask for directions or to use a phone because they ran off the road and into the ditch (happened more than you can guess!)  So, that's one thing I want on my dream home.  I care less about how it looks from the road.  I get my kicks knowing that my house might not look quite so attractive on the outside and knowing that when people step inside, they're in awe!  (Just for clarity - I do not live in my dream home!  Wish that I did!  I feel I must keep pointing this out.)

The second thing my dream home would have - is its kitchen at the front of the house!  My friend used to live in a home that you'd walk in and her U-shaped kitchen was to your left and in the counter that ran vertical to the door was the sink.  I love that!  Most folks, when they come over - where do they head?  The kitchen.  I don't want you walking past my formal living room or formal dining room or my home office or any other part of my house to get to where all the excitement it.  My house is for living in but for the times I choose to have you over - I don't want you to see all those things that are personal to me.  It's not that I covet them but it's more like I just don't want you eye-balling everything I have whether or not you intend to compliment me on my lovely home or furniture and décor.  It's just - not anyone else's business what I have in my home or how I decorate or how I use my spaces.  It's my safe place, my one and only haven.  So, I'd like guests to enter into my kitchen/keeping room area that runs from left to right, and in MY dream home, an open fire place dead ahead so as not to block my entire house off but to offer a warm and inviting 'wall' between community space and private space. 

So, that's it.  The two main things I want in my dream home that I have not seen in any existing home plans (oh, but best believe I have my own plans - wish that I could afford to take them to a company to have them professionally done!).

Saturday, June 21, 2014

Saturday, June 14, 2014

Tyler's Golden Birthday


Modified balloon avalanche. I was going to blow up all 68. In the back if my mind I was thinking I will probably stop at 30. Well, these balloons were super tough and tieing them was too hard - I couldn't get beyond seven. So, it was more like a surprise balloon arch. 


My little golden display... (Bought and ready for the sole purpose of a photo op that I hope to make a tradition)


Photo session.... (This is so not Tyler's cup of tea but I demand it.)


As evidenced by ....


"If you don't stop taking pictures I'm going to hit you with this."  

Kids. Don't you just love them!?

His first pick for his birthday dinner: Golden Corral. Granted it fits the theme but I wasn't having it. His second choice: Buffalo Wild Wings. I can take it or leave it but I don't think Sky was having it. Final choice:  Red Lobster.  That works. 

Happy birthday to my middle child on his fourteenth birthday, June 14, 2014!

Friday, May 30, 2014

Recital Night!

Okay - follow these pic's from the bottom, up. . .

Cookie Time!
 
Impromptu trip to Smart Cow after the recital with Tyler and Robbie,


Justin and Josh!

Mom's fiddling with PicCollage


On stage after the dancing concludes!


Picture time - with Geno Forliti!  An amazing dance instructor and a totally fun guy!!


Big hug from dad!


Josh and Mike Burke!  Another great instructor and teacher of Acro skills!  We love our dance teachers!!!


On the stage after the show - "Why are you still snapping pictures??"


Selfie with mama!


Photo op with dad - before the recital

Sunday, May 18, 2014

Completed Bench

Finally got my cushions made. The cushions cost me about $100. I had thought doing it myself would be cheaper, a bit of fabric, the cushions, some fabric glue. Ha!  But, I couldn't have gotten this lovely fabric if I settled for buying already made cushions. The bech itself was about $75 including paint. I'm very pleased.




Wednesday, May 07, 2014

Help Keep Our Guys In Town!


Friends and Family, Joshua began dancing this year and he loves it.  I do, too.  The experience has been phenomenal.  What is most unique about the dance studio he attends is that his teachers are guys.  We like that a lot.  Another thing is that the atmosphere is really friendly and less formal.  I haven't had a lot of experiences with other dance studios but in looking around it seems that parents are restricted from viewing the classes and that they have little input with music choices, costumes, or anything else.  From what I've learned most dance studio's run their business more like a 'you do what you are told' kind of school and don't allow the kids input and don't allow all their kids to go to competition if they aren't 'good enough.'  I don't do hurt feelings when it comes to signing up for and paying for something my child wants to participate in because he enjoys it - it seems like, to me, the joy gets stripped in the name of perfection at most dance studios.  I know I have a lot of friends with kids in other local dance studios who would say the kids do have fun.  But, none offer male teachers and I don't think any could replace the atmosphere, the friendships between instructors and parents, or  the feeling of home and family I feel with GDC!


Of course, a lot of this has to do with a horrible woman who was so enamoured by these two awesome dance instructors that she offered to sell them her business.  Then, she made their lives a living hell by not following through on agreements she made.  Even though the guys  have had an attorney get involved his fees have been an added cost that they just can't keep up with.  This woman, another dance instructor, has manipulated and defamed them to the point every day is a struggle.  I want to help these guys overcome and persevere because The Best Revenge - Is To Succeed!  Keep in mind Geno has put people on Broadway and in TV shows and Movies and Mike, a gymnastics instructor, has worked with gymnasts at the national and junior levels for many years!  Them coming into the lives of all those here in Green Bay and then being shoved away by one jealous woman is heartbreaking.  Leaving is not a choice they want but are being forced to do.  Please help them stay!

Monday, May 05, 2014

Thunderstruck Dance Competition - Green Bay, WI 2014

Joshua and L did a fantastic job on their routine!  They both nailed their kips (sp) and stayed in time with one another.  I was so excited for them!

However, (despite the amount of money we pay to participate) only one trophy is awarded.  L didn't have a trophy as this was his first dance and Joshua already had two, so L gets this one.
 
 
Geno and Mike are two talented guys who work really well with the kids.  They have a lot of fun and do great work.  I really enjoy being a part of this world.  Generation Dance Company is a great place to learn to dance!!!
 
The boys just after their dance!  So cool! :)

Saturday, April 19, 2014

My Pinterest Project

I loved the cinder block and 4x4 beams bench I saw on Pinterest.  So, obviously, I had to make it.  As with all Pinterest projects, they never turn out quite the same.  But, that's okay.  It's my opportunity to tweak it to make it my own.  Our store didn't carry the more expensive bull-nose blocks so I went with the .92 cent ones.  Once I had them in my possession I got to thinking, 4 beams is an awfully wide seat.  So, my tweak was to make a foot rest.  I really like it.  Now, I will admit after this pic was taken the kids pointed out that they sit mainly on the 2nd, or middle, beam and with more people it might actually break.  So, I pulled that beam out and using another cinder block and a half cinder block made a middle section for the that 2nd beam to run through.  I could've done exactly what I did on the ends but that'd require  more blocks and more paint.  IF I have time I'll use my Cricut to make a template and put some cute decal on the front of the red blocks at each end.  Ultimately, though, it's way far back in our yard and we'll mostly use it at night when there's a fire - so, who other than myself is really going to care if it looks 'pretty?'  I am pleased with it.  Now, I think I need to do another on the other side of the fire pit.  A little run down of prices - I spent $48 on 4 4x4x10 beams, about $14 on blocks, and when it's said and done about $18 on paint (I could've gotten away cheaper but I just bought, in total, 4 cans of spray paint because it's quicker and dries very fast).  All in all, I have a comfy 4 person, possibly 5 person, bench for $80.  Frankly, that's a lot cheaper than buying one that only seats 2 or 3 people.  Yeah, I see myself making another one before too long.  :)
 
 

My Thoughts on the Common Core Standards


Okay, regarding CCS, I've read two internet pages.  One was an article out of California about the implementation of the program (apparently, CA doesn't have to make the switch to CCS because they are going to lose some state funding anyway.  They elected not to tie teachers to their student's test scores.  I have mixed feelings on that which I will elaborate on later.).  It was a very well-written and thorough article and what I took from it was that the CCS focus will be more on depth vs. breadth;  Meaning fewer topics may be discussed but the ones covered will go into a lot of detail.  I kind of like that and it reminds me of the quote:  "Jack of all trades, master of none."  Okay, so which is better?  Frankly, I go with the latter.  From my understanding, in some other countries, children are groomed toward careers in which they exhibit strengths and that they begin gravitating toward those strengths naturally near a certain age.  So, when gravitational interests start to emerge their curricular path is laid out based on those gravitational interests.  Ultimately, I think about age 12/13 the children may no longer find themselves in the same classes as other students their age.  If everyone was educated based on their strengths so many more of us would be successful.  I am reminded of another quote by Albert Einstein, "Everybody is  a genius.  But, if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid." 

Moving on, the CCS basically teaches the kids there are multiple ways to arrive at an answer.  What's important, however, is not how YOU got your answer (provided it's the right one) but that you understand and can explain to others how you got your answer.  It also teaches students to listen and try to comprehend the paths others took to also get to the correct answer.  I can't find anything wrong with that.  Not only does it teach children to focus on their abilities but it teaches them to be patient and understanding and accepting.  That's good business practice!  Which is a good lead into the fact that CCS is based on international standards and is preparing students not just for college or the work force, but for the global economy.

I have read, and my mom has pointed out (I think this is her main argument) that the CCS doesn't teach kids the basics or foundation for which learning occurs.  I don't think that you need a foundation because it's an ever-evolving step that can easily be integrated into the teaching.  No doubt, the CCS really make the teachers work for their money.  If I were a teacher, I think I'd enjoy the challenge.  The teacher's that pull off teaching the CCS well and with great success measured by student's comprehension will be the best and sought after, in my opinion.  This is a good thing. 

One thing I'm not sure if I like or not is the testing.  I believe it's computer based and adaptive.  It reminds me of the NCLEX (test for nurses).  You get one right you get a harder question.  Get one wrong, you get a slightly easier question.  The more questions you answer, right or wrong, generally indicates how well, or not how well you're doing.  The more, the poorer you did - but it doesn't mean you'll fail.  The less you answer, means you got the majority right.  So, I gather that the aim is to measure what you know.  Let's underline you.  I think then, it's makes it nearly impossible for one to fail and as such, teachers shouldn't be worried about their career based on student's test scores.  But, I have a feeling I have assumed too little about the testing and how it reflects on teachers.  I admit I will have to look further into that issue. 

Now, there are some drawbacks, admitted by websites I've visited - but they don't weigh much with me.  Mainly that CCS can't be tailored to all the diversities of knowledge throughout this country.  We have so many poorer students, generally localized but found throughout every state, and many non-English speakers for whom learning in English is generally more delayed and educational achievements a little bit more difficult.  You can't expect everyone to learn at the same rate and pace, regardless of background.  That is why I think, if it is true, that determining a child's curricula based on gravitational interests is a better way to go.  But, with the CCS, once it's developed here and has become less of a debatable issue, it will be easier to instigate that step in the future.  But, that is me inserting my own ideas and speculation about furthering the CCS.

Another thing I don't like is that the federal government has told schools that if you don't adopt this program you will lose any funding from the federal government.  If the program is so good - they could've presented it in a much better way rather than bullying the school districts to accept.  So, right off the bat the government created opposition.  Too many people will not do their own research or form their opinions based on such and will hear only how they're being forced to change or else - and regardless of the positives the CCS offers, it will now be a battle of wills. 

I will admit the transition will be hard.  And, as our school district has already implemented the CCS I have witnessed the difficulty.  Joshua came home crying uncontrollably struggling to exclaim how much he hated math because it was so different from last year - we're talking from 2nd grade to 3rd.  I remember talking to his teacher about CCS and I told her it sounds to me like about three years down the road it might actually be a great thing. 

So, I am for the CCS and as I continue to learn more I will update my thinking behind the program either for or against. 

Saturday, April 12, 2014

Dance Magic 2014



This was Joshua's first year dancing and this was his first competition, ever.  Dance Magic was in Wausau at East Wausau High School.  It was super crowded with a basket ball game going on, SAT testing, plus Dance Magic 2014.  The school is lovely and well-designed for dance competitions.  Things I'd do differently next year - wear tennie's and comfy clothes!  I did a lot of running trying to help him get changed between dances (they did two) and trying to watch their performances from the auditorium.  It was crowded but not ridiculously so.  Joshua, A, and J did a fantastic job and I was super-proud!  And, I'd like to add I didn't encounter any 'dance moms' of the likes you see on TV.  Everyone is so nice and friendly and helpful - and encouraging and congratulatory to everyone.  It was a great experience!  Prior to arriving I'll say Google Maps was apparently 'having fun' with me.  We got to a stop sign just prior to an enormous hill.  But GM had me go left, then right, a left again, and another left - before arriving right back at that huge hill - GM said go left (down the big hill) - Joshua looked at me and we looked at each like, 'what the heck!'  Then, we laughed.  Needless to say - I had a great time and Joshua did, too! 

Sunday, April 06, 2014

Helping Mama Look For A Hat


I went into Younkers to buy Joshua's dress pants for a dance number he's doing and first thing - I ran into my good friends, Kimber & John & Devon!  Too funny seeing as how we had just hung out the night before at Family Fun Night.  She told me Younkers was having a good sale and about all the great things she bought.  Apparently, Sunday was the boys' turn shopping (although, I think she found more!).  They are such fun people!  I had left Tyler in the vehicle (he's just about 13, y'all) and told him we'd be "in and out.  20 min. max."  LOL!  Once Joshua and I checked out from the kids dept., dress pants and two golf shirts later, we headed downstairs where I proceeded to look at shoes, then purses, and finally - hats!  Joshua seemed to like all the pretty hats, too.  That's my boy!  I love that he's so okay to be silly and have a little fun.  I did purchase a hat, not pictured, a wrap, and a $8 pair of Gloria Vanderbilt jeans!  While standing in line I got a call from Tyler, "you do realize your 20 minutes has been like an hour, right?"  ME:  "They were having a sale!"
 

Wednesday, March 19, 2014

Aww!

Wiping Mila's snout after she's come in from playing and slung her drool around. Who could resist that!?

Sunday, March 09, 2014

Sleepover with Kimber and Devon

Cooling the wine-Wisconsin style!


Mila really wanted some!  Nah nah, you can't have any!  LOL!


Boys playing Little Big Planet.